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January 5 question - What's the one thing about your writing career you regret the most? Were you able to overcome it?
As a teacher, I believe that a person who doesn't make mistakes is a person who isn't trying anything new or challenging.
Making mistakes and taking wrong turns is part of learning. We get something from every step we take, whether that step works out or not. I don't spend a lot of time looking back and thinking about mistakes. I'd rather look forward to what I can do better next time.
However... I think my biggest regret might be not realizing I had uploaded the wrong file for one (okay 2) of my books. Instead, I uploaded the files from the next-to-last edit round. With multiple typos and errors. Not a ton, but still far too many!
It took me almost a year to realize my errors and correct them. Sigh.
How about you? Any publishing horror stories in your past? Anyone else upload the wrong file? Anyone else learn the hard way to triple-check their uploads?
Oops! Hey, at least you caught it.
ReplyDeleteMaking mistakes is how we learn.
Big oops - but at least it's fixed! :)
DeleteHappy New Year, Jemi!
ReplyDeleteFor me, the word 'regret' is not the correct word.
Ups-and-downs are an integral part of the journey and help to shape us into the writers we are!
P.S. A visit to my beautiful country is a 'must' on your bucket list!
It's definitely on the bucket list! Hubby and I are mostly homebodies, but one day when the world is in better shape we may just venture forth!
DeleteHi and Happy New Year!
ReplyDeleteI can identify with the publishing mistake. I did it with one of my books, and it took me six months to get it right. Yet as you say, I learned a lot and hopefully will not make that same mistake again.
All the best and take care.
Shalom aleichem,
Pat G @ EverythingMustChange
We live and we learn!
DeleteAll the best for 2022, Pat!
Uploading the wrong file would be a nightmare for me. I stress when I make a mistake like prodding my illustrator for the full wraparound when I haven't even ordered the bar code yet. Yup, done that!
ReplyDeleteLOL - there's so much to keep track of! Thank goodness for spreadsheets!
DeleteI think you have a great outlook on making mistakes and not looking back and regretting things.
ReplyDeleteIt's not worth my time and energy! I always need more of both!
DeleteI've noticed errors right after i hit that send button to agents/publishers because i used the wrong file to copy from. I learned to just breathe and not hit send so quickly. Thanks for sharing!
ReplyDeleteJust breathing and taking time are such smart ideas!
DeleteI agree that we learn from our mistakes as they are our best teacher.
ReplyDeleteI've definitely learned the hard way to triple check those file uploads. :)
ReplyDeleteTo learning from our mistakes! Cheers!
Cheers!!! And onwards!
DeleteThat could happen to anyone! And such a good point about mistakes being part of the learning process.
ReplyDeleteIt was such a silly mistake, but I've got a better process in place now!
DeleteVery true about making mistakes,,,, yes we do learn from them.
ReplyDeleteHope you are well and have a wonderful New Year.
Year,
Thanks, Yvonne! We're good here - sending best wishes your way for 2022!
DeleteOh yeah. I've definitely made a few mistakes. I agree, we are all learning. Mistakes get made as we learn and thankfully, we do learn. :)
ReplyDeleteThankfully!!! I'd hate to keep making the same mistakes over and over again!
DeleteThat is the best regret I've seen all day. So true! Never did it. Having readers comment on the occasional type is cringeworthy enough for me!
ReplyDeleteI know!!! I rarely read reviews - but one complaint about an error caught my eye - and had me realizing what I'd done!
DeleteI know exactly what you felt when you uploaded the wrong files! Been there. You definitely do not have the corner on that mistake. Grrr. However, you fixed it and the world continued to spin. Have a great 2022 with lots of learning mistakes that can be fixed. :-)
ReplyDeleteSounds like a perfect wish to me!!
DeleteAll the best to you as well, Lee!
Your mistake was infuriating - but you DID catch it, and fix it. Which is a plus.
ReplyDeleteAnd yes, we learn from our mistakes (and sometimes sadly repeatedly).
Yes, I'm so glad I eventually caught it!! Phew!
DeleteI truly believe things learned the hard way are a little easier to remember. Speaking as a student of the School of Hard Knocks. ;-)
ReplyDeleteAnna from elements of emaginette
I agree - didn't realize we'd been to the same school!!! :P
DeleteMistakes are inevitable if one is making any kind of effort, but I just cringe at the kind that are on view for the entire world to see. I have to fall back on the line I used to use with my daughter, "well, at least it didn't kill me." 😆
ReplyDeleteLOL - sounds like my new mantra!
DeleteYou and me both, Patty!!
ReplyDeleteI agree. We DO learn from our mistakes. Or, WE SHOULD. That is terrible about your downloads. Thankfully, you didn't lose your manuscript altogether.
ReplyDeleteHAPPY NEW YEAR, JEMI! All the best for 2022!
Happy new year, Michael! Congrats again on your story being in the IWSG anthology!
DeleteGreat post, Jemi. I agree absolutely: you learn from your mistakes and then put them behind you and look to the future. Otherwise, we would all be mired in the past and not accomplish anything.
ReplyDeleteExactly! Life's tough enough without dwelling!
DeleteAs someone who just meticulously checked and uploaded files for ye new booke that freaks me right out! But yes, mistakes will happen. After all, how can we learn without making mistakes?
ReplyDeleteThe Warrior Muse
I know!! You have no idea how careful I am with files now!!!
DeleteMistakes are certainly the best teachers. Ooops about uploading the wrong files. The stuff nightmares are made of. Happy New Year :)
ReplyDeleteLOL - I've had more than a few nightmares over that one!!
DeleteAll the best for 2022, Kalpana!
Ooooh... I could see why that regret would stick with you after all this time. After working so hard to get rid of errors, it's a killer to let a few through anyway. But what's done is done and you learned from it, so count your blessings.
ReplyDeleteHappy 2022!
I am! Sometimes you just have to shrug and move on! :)
DeleteThat is a good way to look at it. We have all made mistakes along the way.
ReplyDeleteWe have - and hopefully most of them aren't too big!
DeleteI love your outlook on mistakes and learning from them. I sometimes think we can't grow if there aren't a few mistakes along the way.
ReplyDeleteTotally agree, Mason!!
DeleteHappy New Year to you and your family, Jemi! I'm still on hiatus but slowly returning to online life--here's wishing you all good things in the new year. So inspired by your take on mistakes--learning from them is so important.
ReplyDeleteThanks, Damyanti! I hope you and yours have a positive and peaceful 2022!
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